Dreams don’t deny

Dear Dream Lady,
(Edited) I dreamed that my ex-husband divorced and remarried me. When I woke up, I felt shaken and queasy. I have dreamed this many times and never awakened feeling so affected by it. We have been divorced for 27 years and we talk almost every day over the phone. He says he will never marry again. We communicate now more than when we were married. What does this mean?
Honestly Wants to Know in Texas

Dear Honestly,
What it means is that MAYBE you would like to be re-married to your phone companion, but he clearly does not. For him to tell you he will “never marry again” is unkind (even though he may not realize it). Your dream says you ARE emotionally wounded about his statement, but you do not outwardly show it…so your dream lets you be upset. That is one of the purposes of dreams—they can express your real feelings. I am not sure if you two have gone on to live separate lives, but if not, perhaps he is holding you back from a fulfilling relationship. Do you want a phone-only companion or a potential marriage partner? If you want the latter, slow down on the phone calls and spread your wings to invite more sensitive men into your life. —Dream Lady

Dear Dream Lady,
I am an honest person, but lately I have been having dreams where an angel (?) is telling me not to get involved in “situational ethics.” I am stumped. Why would that be happening?
Sara M, San Antonio, Texas

Dear Sara,
Dreams have many functions (see above). Your conscious mind is telling your dreaming mind that you are aware that there are some gray areas in your life about whether or not you are doing the right thing. Examine your personal and business ethics. Are you ALWAYS doing the right thing? Are you ALWAYS being impeccably honest with yourself and others? If not, this dream is warning to you to clean up your act or you will regret it. It is a small world and unethical people are eventually outcast. Remember the Golden Rule and you will do fine. —Dream Lady

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